working on radner's essay and talking to aida today, its supposed to be a circulum to teach 15 yr olds sexual values in a religious setting--but what do you tell a fifteen yr old about fucking, except maybe do it all the time, with yr hand and with a person if you can find it--all of the lessons of sex, the holiness, the sharing of grace, the minor disasters and major heart breaks can only exist in the context of action, of bodies moving (sometimes wiht other bodies) in space.

you can tell them to be safe, but you cannot tell them to protect themselves completely.