t, you know, you come out every day in ten million different ways, and sometimes giving somebody a hand job in the back of a car in etobicoke isn’t a gay act, it’s a sort of mutually traded orgasm, like you would trade hockey cards. If you want to play some straight acting and you want to have somebody give you a hand job it’s fine. I’m not going to police you [inaudible] or your identity.

from an interview i did with a pysch student at ryserson about gay male identity and the body.