the problem w. me being a priest is that my sexual ethics are skewed...
imagine
a queer 15 yr old coming out and me saying its all ok, god made you whole and holy. '
a man talks about lustful thoughts about a woman other then his wife, and i think of hagar
a man cheats on his wife, and i am not mad about the sex but the lying. (or me offering marriage counselling, w. my cynicism towards monogomy)
someone confesses to masterbating and me telling them it isnt a sign at all.

and i still have that buddhist third way, can kill a starving man by feeding him vs christ as single, eunuchs for the kingdom of god, pauline/augustine/orgienin(sp) attitudes towards sex rolling thru my brain like tumbleweeds